joseph
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Posted: Wed Dec 15, 2010 12:37 pm Post subject:
Well. Sandi…Your answer was very descriptive and interesting – but… with all my respect I have for you (an this is true, not some lie!) – I don’t think, that all you said here would be spoken publicly (sorry, but that’s only my opinion…) and…well – I can only be very regretful now, this great site you mentioned is gone for good and it’s content is lost for eternity for all ‘gladiatrix lovers’ as – for example – me….
But still - as I said previously - this book is making my old dreams come true (and I'm sure, if I could find the group you mentioned, I would say the same words, but some years earlier...)
j
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Sandi
Joined: 03 May 2006
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Posted: Wed Dec 15, 2010 1:02 pm Post subject:
Joseph,
I understand your point of view about 'going public' with what I know, and I admit to being conflicted and somewhat emotional about it right now. As I said, I will not produce the pictures of the real Sally, but somehow I am uncertain as to how I feel, that's all.
I never compromise a 'confidence' with someone that I have developed on the Internet, and MANY of my 'relationships' have turned into wonderful sharing with real people about much outside of fantasy also. I learn and have fun with each person with whom I have shared.
So you may well be correct, but since I feel that they are 'going public' with aspects in that book that we at the Group had NO intention of ever being made public, I feel 'used'.
Thanks for the reply, I respect and understand your answer.....and, again, you may well be right about questioning even what I have revealed publicly about 'them'....but they used me, and I feel that was unfair because we knew nothing of their intentions of using OUR input...for their profit......LOL.
But when I went to the website of russell that you mentioned, I already knew, and confirmed by clicking on the links that detail his wife and daughter's names also.
This is not the first nor the last time this type of thing will occur, but I hope you understand why at least I am 'uncertain' as to how I feel, and why I feel 'used' at the moment, when we had no idea our words would ever be reproduced for Profit by Others who told us nothing of their intentions.
Sandi
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Sandi
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Posted: Wed Dec 15, 2010 1:08 pm Post subject:
one more thing, Joseph, since I am unable to 'Edit' and have to make a new post...
the irony is, as I laugh out loud here, that my very attention to this will direct more people to your thread (I put up a thread referencing this at the Main Forum also...lol).....and ultimately cause some here to buy their book and increase their profits!
And yes, I will likely be one of those who buy it or at least read it!....I LOVE that time period or 'Rome' for many, many reasons, and the fact that it fits many of my most INTENSE fantasies just makes it more exciting.
So I hear you....lol....and will be excited to read the book that was made partially from things I said at that Group and things many Others, male and female, said and contributed.
We contributed unknowingly to their book. And now I've brought more attention to your thread and their book.
LOL!
All is good, Joseph. I just felt I had to reveal some things, and maybe I am wrong to do so....though I still do not think so....LOL.
Thanks again, we obviously share a lot in terms of loving to read of that era in time and probably the greatest and longest lasting Empire in history....for good and for bad, yes.
But it was an amazing time period of both the heights of greatness never achieved in so many areas, and the depths of depravity that eventually killed the Empire, in other areas.
Sandi
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wolfmi
Joined: 18 Aug 2010
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Posted: Wed Dec 15, 2010 1:42 pm Post subject:
Hi,
I will give the book a try, because the theme is very interesting for me, although I know, that it is not historic (to call it "Historical Fiction" is a little bit wrong leading - it is pure fantasy with roman namings, but that is not bad).
I can see no wrong in "using" a fetish gladiator-fight board as research and playground for a book with a female gladiator theme. If the impetus for actually writing the book came through the work on the board than I would only congratulate without any hard feeling.
I know that authors often have problems in their private sphere of friends and families, because they usally use elements of the normal life in their work. Of course every private talk, every private occasion and every private acquaintance can and is often "used" as material in professional writings.
That this author and his wife obviously were very interested in gladiator roleplay is for me a very good sign for a serious study of this theme.
I can see, that this book might have a great strenght in using "fetish elements" more than historical elements (because the writer has obviously no scientific knowledge of roman history and is not interested in continuous precision regarding of historical facts - at least the blurb had a lot of historical inaccuracies and even mistakes - and a member of the Julian family as proconsul of the province asia (NOT Asia minor!) is hurting the historian in me).
For me, who has studied roman history and someone who is very intersted in the female fighting aspect, it is necessary to turn off the historian and turn on my emotional side in reading this book. But I have good hope, that I will like the book and frankly, the discovery that the author has made "research" and found inspirations on a fetish roleplay board sounds the more promising for the book.
wolfmi
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joseph
Joined: 14 Feb 2007
Posts: 318
Posted: Wed Dec 15, 2010 1:49 pm Post subject:
Well Sandi…. Here we have two different cases…
First one – I started the thread with review of the book I really liked – and still like…– and I’m sure, some other people here will do as well… And – for sure – this is the only one book I know in this genre…. Actually – one of my thoughts while reading was “Hmmm… The guy had visited some quite interesting sites in the past for sure” – wink!
The second one – the case you touched… Well… Yes – it was for sure emotional reaction… I can’t say, how many of yours roleplaying was used there (maybe some ideas, maybe some parts or reactions - or maybe they were the inspiration for writer?), as I don’t know this site (and that’s a real pity, as I’m sure I would be a huge fan of this place – and YES!!!! – maybe at least some of your stories/actions would be saved into my own library, not fell into the ‘dark hole’ where they are now?). I don’t want (actually: I can’t too, as I don’t know the all details) to stand on one or another side, however… well… I think I could imagine - at least a bit - how you could feel right now… However, if you can’t change the situation (as it looks so), maybe you can try to take a look at that from the other side – from the side of those, who don’t know your story, and only read the book… and are happy at least they found something that completely fits into their interests (NOT fetish ones, as the scenes from the arena are not exciting ones… actually they are horrible…). Even if it was created the way you said, it’s still really great book – and I did not change my opinion…. As for me it will be even more interesting – and a bit personal - when I know, there is some ‘part’ of somebody, whom I know a bit from the virtual reality (that’s to you, Sandi!)…
Well… All in all I think some day you’ll take a look inside this book (against all odds) – to fully know at least are you there or not (well… There is some character a bit fitting for you - I'm curious am I right?– wink!)
Actually - The book was issued about 2-3 years ago and I still think, every gladiatrixes fan should to take a look inside… as it is really worth it…
j
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joseph
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Posted: Wed Dec 15, 2010 1:59 pm Post subject:
Upppss...Well... It took me some time to create my answer for Sandi, and at this time the board was changed a bit - LOL!!! - but I agree with you Sandi - for me the sentence 'let's remember those good times, that were gone for good and will never back" means a lot too....
Well wolfmi - I agree, the term 'historical' is a bit not exact, but... this is the story for reading - let's say- with feelings, not with the historical knowledge, if you know what I think...
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Sandi
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Posted: Wed Dec 15, 2010 2:57 pm Post subject:
I will make you a promise, Joseph, that I will indeed read the book (I must, of course) and reply to you here in the public domain about any specific parts that were taken from what 'we' gave them back at the Group.
And I surely agree with both you and Wolfmi that the book is to be read and enjoyed on its own merits. When I hear Wolfmi state that it is not a historically accurate book but historial fiction, that suggests to me that there may be more of 'us' in that book that I even thought...lol.
Sandi
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Sandi
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New postPosted: Wed Dec 15, 2010 12:24 pm Post subject: Reality re the Internet and Our Fantasies...Please Read! Reply with quote
I post this at the Main Forum because it is appropriate for Female Fantasy Death.
I'd like every Member to view a thread at All Topics by Joseph, entitled 'Gladiatrix'...and read my comments.
4000 of us gathered at a Yahoo Group named 'Gladiatrixs'. It was the most intense 2-3 years I have ever spent interacting and writing and sharing the INTENSE fantasies of the Roman Arena.
That Site Owner has unabashedly used our efforts and captured many of them and written a book from which that person will profit handsomely.
It is a superb example of Internet life, and directly related to our fantasies.
Most of us there were being totally 'real' in our expressions and contributions.
And someone else was merely using us for their own eventual profit gain. I am certain the major parts of the book Joseph references are from true knowledge and research, but the point is that I feel somewhat 'used' because they intended this book all the time, and it was the purpose of what they tried to get from Others of us who will not be compensated, as legally I'm sure we need not be.
But some of this reality 'hurts' a bit....for more, please see Joseph's thread and my initial comments.
And they are neither the first nor the last to use the Internet and other unsuspecting people for their own profit gain.
Such things may even lead to new 'laws' eventually, about what can be reproduced without someone else's permission. None of us know that yet, because the Internet and this form of communication is still in its infancy.
Obviously from my comments here and at that thread, I am a bit conflicted and still feeling the initial 'hurt' of being used. But I saw this coming, and am not surprised at all.
Sandi
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